Men’s Retreats Ibiza

October 30 – November 1st //  Men’s Retreat Ibiza
New Foundations: Back 2 Basics


Join our 2nd Men 3-day retreat in Ibiza
Friday October 30iest – Sunday 1st of November

In these times of transformation
the call is to go back to our foundation
to own our emotions and projections
to gather in unity and support
not in competition and emotional distance

To become a clearer channel
to be able to say a strong NO and a full YES
to hold, protect and nurture the feminine inside & outside yourself
while letting go of old toxicity and layers of conditioning
and honour and embrace more of our mature masculinity

In the 2020 October Retreat, you
? Get crystal clarity on your highest aligned mission and soul purpose
? Feel & Experience the essence of Sacred Masculine Brotherhood
? Connect in a playful but strong way with locked away vital masculine energy
? Connect deeper to your body, become more of your body, feel your body more and release possible blockages
? Learn to deal with and integrate parts of yourself that you have made wrong or for other reasons have pushed out of side.
? Learn Breathwork
? Activate more of your Sacred Kundalini Energy
? Enjoy abundant nature on one of Ibiza’s best spots, make new friends and witness endless sunsets in front of Powerspot Es Vedra

I feel a BIG yes in my body to invite more sacred brotherhood in my life >>>
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Why calling myself a writer is the best thing that ever happened in my life

My passion is to write words that go deeper
I write because I simply love writing

How do you become a writer?

There is only one true answer to that. And there is no shortcut.

You start writing and you don’t stop. It is a rollercoaster passing canyons of despair and mountain tops of paragraph orgasms.

I am a wordsmith that can create worlds with words.


  • I have written 160 blogs the last year mostly on the medium platform.
  • All my articles in the Netherlands have been published. Mostly about travel and culture.
  • Since 2 years I write every day in English. I am a native Dutch speaker
  • I self-published my novel “The WIsdom Keeper” 2 years ago.

My next step is to write content for others, I am ready for it. Especially Dutch entrepreneurs that settle in Ibiza and need some kick-ass lines for bringing their value about.

When you need words that reach further, that fill the space between you and your clients. When you need creative content with a bite. Call me or mail me

Lucien Lecarme

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Transition 3 day retreat

Your transition is not your empowerment alone, it is your part of of the puzzle falling in place with finding your purpose.

Book a 3-day private retreat ( max 4 persons) in front of Es Vedra, the energetically high vibrating vortex in Ibiza. The perfect place for your personal transition towards your true purpose.


We are in a transition, a story in between stories, a timeframe where many people are waking up.

Are you one of those people that no longer believe in the old story of lack, competition and scarcity? Have you set yourself on that magical journey to find your true purpose in the new story?

This process of personal empowerment, to fully embrace your higher purpose, is crucial for humanity to be able to make that leap of faith, to journey into unknown territory together and to co-create the new story of abundance, connection, sustainability and responsibility,

Are you ready to become the Ninja warrior of your life? Or maybe you are embodying it already, and you need a recharge, a rethink, a re-alignment.

I am offering this retreat for all the potential game-changers, thought leaders, lightworkers, shadow riders and everybody ready to be the change. More info>>

The Wisdom Keeper online Abundance Course

Join the 8-week Wisdom keeper’s Abundance course towards unleashing more abundance in your daily life in these evolutionary times of awakening,  I help you to identify your conditioning, to start identifying and experiencing your core-unworthiness and hand out practical tools to raise your frequency. It won’t be a quick fix but a step for step guide towards laying the foundation of getting more and more in touch with your inner abundance that is always there, by slowly peeling away layers of feeling unworthy.

Move away from being a victim of circumstances and addictions to become more & more the creator of your life. I’ll guide you towards staying in source and to connect more from the heart, with presence, purpose and clarity, to live a more abundant life from joy and passion.

Check out the Course set up here

Joining the Beta course will give you access to:

  • 4 zoom calls (1 hour)
  • The Wisdom Keepers tool guide to inner Freedom and abundance
  • Private community FB group to share your journey and connect to tribe
  • Free access to my top 10 blogs on abundance, personal growth & freedom

You can add private online coaching sessions for $65,- per hour.

Subscribe to this course here and receive my Ebook  “The WIsdom Keeper” for free / Start: June 10th / 8PM /

Because this is my first online course, I offer a beta package, including a 50% discount. The price will be $97,- ( instead of $200,-)  for 4 bi-weekly sessions of 1 hour. I am looking forward to receiving your feedback to polish and make my future courses shine even better. I am confident in bringing you the best value I can give to support you in your process of empowerment and creating a strong daily foundation to embrace your inner freedom and abundance at any time.

krachtplek_FBFacilitator: Lucien Lecarme
am co-facilitating Men’s groups in Ibiza for 1,5 years now. Having organized empowerment retreats in Ibiza for 5 years, I decided to take the step to offer online courses. In the men’s groups and the retreats, I work with HeartIQ circle work technique and practices after doing the facilitator training. I am looking forward to joining in a circle online, and offer my life’s wisdom, skills and inspiration for you to get in touch with your natural inner abundance and freedom, your natural birthright.

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“The amount of growth you will experience in your life depends on how much uncertainty you can handle”–from the viral blog:  I don’t own a house, Didn’t built A career…I am 52 and Blissfully Happy

These Life Lessons Made Me Realize What Money Really Is

Why you need to live life to the fullest to find out what money means to you


Imagine a pawnshop for life experiences. You need cash, bring your life lesson and now you can pay your debt. You won’t get back that specific life experience you traded. Would you do it?

You probably have memories and experiences that are priceless, would you trade them for a million?

Let’s put it this way. When you are lost in the desert and you can choose between a kilo of gold and a litre of water: which do you choose?

I guess your choice is water.

Money is relative in certain circumstances and many life experiences can’t be expressed in money. On the other hand, when your life is full of rich experiences, that doesn’t automatically mean your bank account is full too.

My experience in life is that in order to have many enriching life experiences, I needed to let go of my bag of money. The stuff I accumulated over the years.


Life is a bunch of circumstances that makes you let go of things that become too heavy to enjoy a light travel.

I am now 53 and when I look back at my life I see myself accumulating stuff, experiences, money, and friends in the first part up ’til 40. The last 13 years have all been about the often painful process of letting go of exactly the same things I did so much work and effort to assemble. Happily, my life lessons remained. They are my true gold.

“So what’s the point?” I hear you ask.

Wait, there is more to it. Already at a young age, I had experiences that made me question everything. Still, I needed to be in the money game and become successful.

These life experiences and lessons made me discover the real value of money.


When death happens early to you, it will mark you for the rest of your life. I don’t mean your specific death since it would be game over. No, the death of a dear close family or a beloved one.

I lost my mother from cancer when I was 31 after a process of 15 years. It told me so much about life. It cleared most of the unhealthy patterns we had in our family.

Death is the only profound experience that can teach you what life is really all about.


It was a process of purification and looking to the existential stuff out there. No more time for bullshit when you have a few days more to live.

This intensity before a loved one dies, that sacred space of heart connection and being human is an amazing gift. My mother gave me that gift: to feel life deeper and more sacred than ever before

After these experiences I still wanted to succeed in my work, make good money and build my reputation. The presence of death, however, had given me the assurance that it can fall away one day.

Everything you have built up your entire life can fall away in an instant and death taught me that what you will find in that space of loss is priceless.

It made me less afraid to lose everything because I knew it would not be the end of it. Merely a beginning.


I wasn’t afraid to lose everything since I had experienced that life is the biggest gift and losing is not the end but more often the beginning of unexpected journeys.

I took this quite literally.

After my mother died I got introduced to the world of casinos and gambling through a friend and I start practising losing everything. I did lose everything, many times.

Life had hit me hard. I closed my heart to avoid more pain. Sadly this way I isolated myself from real love and nurturing relationships.

Gambling became a substitute, a place where dopamine kept me alive when all I needed was allowing myself to open my heart again. But I couldn’t.

The heart has its own mysterious ways and there is beauty and grace in suffering too.

Some I drank seven whiskeys at home, walked to the casino, lost thousands of bucks, but felt alive. The next morning was a different experience, more like an elephant of guilt, blame and shame stamping on my head.

When you are standing with your back against your empty bank account, you start to appreciate the things you always took for granted.

Real friendship, family, your health, the fact that you have a job…

I won once in a while too. In the drunk aftermath, it was not unusual to visit a hooker or call a girl. Yes, that one, the one you call.

A lonely attempt to get my heart filled when my glass, heart, and wallet was empty.

It took me about 10 years, I lost about $100.000, and had a lot of dollar coaster moments in the casino that I never will forget. From people desperately asking me if I wanted to buy their wallet five minutes before closing to $500 sticking out of the ATM machine inside the casino, people had forgotten to take the money with them. The Chinese or Russian mob playing $100k at the time without blinking an eye.

Everybody that gambles has their reason and their pain. I never forget the conspiring atmosphere between the green tables, the buzzing of the wins and loses against all odds and hope dying out like the smoke of a cigarette on a wet street at the outskirts of life.

It taught me the essence of money.

Money is life energy, it is love, it is everything and nothing and you will always get some more even when you just lost everything.

But you do need to work for it. A casino is no shortcut to money neither to real life. It takes both away from you.

Read here how I eventually got rid of that addiction


I finally managed to open my heart again after countless relationships with the most beautiful women on earth whom I met through my passion: the Argentinian Tango.


There was potential true love in there, and I always gave my all. But that didn’t make me attach completely to these artsy, crazy, wonderful creatures. I believed I attracted the women that had the same problem, often the same pain. They stayed at a distance even when our bodies would press hard against each other in a firm embrace on the dance floor of life.

They would angle me in with their sensual amazing bodies and let me play around for a while.

    And then, all of a sudden they would throw me out, drown me in their undercurrents of toxic purple rain, their pain, the unresolved trauma’s. We would mutually drown in drama, waving at each other from a sinking titanic, our love hitting the iceberg of our cold hearts.

Yes, it was passionate, it was sensual and sexual, but it was still not nurturing.

Until I was ready. Until I did the work, released the pain, opened my heart really and fully. Only then I was ready to meet my real-life partner.

My soul mate, my friend till the end. The wise counterpart that forgave me my sins even before I would make them. I can tell you, unconditional love beats them all. It makes you forgive yourself, it makes you not make a mistake because you don’t need that pattern anymore to kick yourself in the balls later.

It made me let go of my shame, blame and guilt play. She is the perfect mirror and she made me grow beyond I could ever imagine.

And money?

She made me realize forever and ever that love, real love always beats money. The real love in your heart. Money can cover up the lack of your connection to that love. Money can cover up that dark hole of pain cut in your soul.

The more you are able to fill that black hole of the absence of love in your life, the less and less important money will become for you.

Lucien Lecarme

This blog was originally posted on Medium, read it here >>